US – A User’s Guide
(click the above link to download Free Sample of US)
Marriage Coach Daniel Tocchini shows how to
break barriers and remove ruts in marriage
Us, a new book by Daniel Tocchini, isn’t about improving marriages. It’s about transforming them. Drawing on personal experience and stories from couples he has coached, Tocchini offers practical guidance to move couples beyond communication tricks and gimmicks to help them truly understand “Us” for the first time—talking honestly, listening generously, tackling tricky issues, breaking out of ruts, and abandoning self-centered “consumer thinking.” The good news, according to Tocchini, is that personalities don’t need to change in order for marriage to work. What needs to change is how we view ourselves, our spouses, and our marriages.
Innovative, insightful and thoroughly biblical, Tocchini’s approach has helped thousands in his popular seminars. Whether a marriage is in deep trouble or just coasting along, it’s time for Christian couples to read the User’s Guide that God intended.
In this intensely practical, innovative guide, marriage coach Daniel Tocchini invites you to open your marriage to transformation by learning to:
Expect less—and infinitely more—of your life partner and yourself
Actually talk to each other instead of making assumptions (and accusations)
Break free of those recurring, unresolved arguments
Manage the impact of difficult (but necessary) conversations on your relationship
Defuse conflict without sweeping it under a rug
Open the broken places in your marriage (the ones you hesitate even to talk about) to God’s kind of reconciliation
Tocchini explains, “This is a transformational approach to breaking through the barriers and getting out of the ruts in our marriage by paying attention to our conversation—what we are thinking, our motivation for thinking it, and the impact it has on our spouse.”
What Others Say About US:
“Dan Tocchini understands the subtle turns of mind, soul, and will that move people toward or away from ‘US’ in marriage. Follow his explanations and illustrations closely and apply them in your life!” Dallas Willard author of The Divine Conspiracy & professor of philosophy University of Southern California
“It is now a truism: We live in a culture that is good at helping people plan a wedding, but bad at helping people plan a marriage. Us shows us how to acheive a rewarding marriage by rewanding it with mystery and miracle.” Leonard Sweet, Author of So Beautiful, Aqua Church 2.o and the upcoming Nudge.